Although there are always more fish in the sea, once you've caught one you really like, it's not always easy to toss it back out into the water. Truth is, if he gets promoted halfway around the world or you get the job offer of your dreams and need to move to the big apple, it's probably heart wrenching to think of losing what the two of you have built. So, the question is: Can long distance relationships actually work? In this article, we'll talk about the pros, cons, and realities of long distance dating. Some of the advantages of long distance dating do make it an enticing option for your love life. The distance allows some couples enough time to miss each other a little bit and they gain some real appreciation for one another. Not seeing each other every day also allows for a little more romance, as small surprises will be a much bigger deal. An unanticipated vase of roses at work will bring on a smile that's twice as large if she misses him. However, although some distance between you and your current heart throb could spice up the romantic flame, if you are not careful, you may end up neglecting the "meat" or substance of your relationship. The day to day events like work and classes are things you two would share if you were not so far from each other. Leaving these little things out of your relationship would make it superficial and it may become awkward to have quiet moments alone together. * If the two of you decide to give it the old college try, then you need to keep a few things in mind: * Show each other your appreciation regularly. * Make sure you still communicate deeply, whether through emails, letters, or phone calls. * Be honest with each other. It is critically important, as it will cut down on questions or suspicions of infidelity. Long distance dating is not for everyone, but it is not impossible ether. You must remember to be consistently conscious of your partner, honest about your own needs and feelings, and remember to make time for romance. If I was really meant to be, "there ain't no river wide enough"...